{"id":811,"date":"2012-07-23T18:28:12","date_gmt":"2012-07-24T02:28:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lairdharrison.com\/fallenlake\/?p=811"},"modified":"2012-07-24T08:59:41","modified_gmt":"2012-07-24T16:59:41","slug":"group-marriage-and-gene","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lairdharrison.com\/fallenlake\/811\/group-marriage-and-gene\/","title":{"rendered":"Genes, OCD and me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>OK, I guess it&#8217;s my turn. As the &#8220;Matt&#8221; character in Fallen Lake, I&#8217;ve relegated myself to lurking up until now, reading <a href=\"https:\/\/lairdharrison.com\/fallenlake\/category\/adrienne\/\" target=\"_blank\">Adrienne&#8217;s posts <\/a>with bemusement, especially as related to me. Unlike her, I don&#8217;t take offense at Laird Harrison&#8217;s whole enterprise in writing &#8220;Fallen Lake.&#8221; While he takes poetic license in his account of these events in my childhood, I think he describes the essential outline accurately.<\/p>\n<p>But I now see the necessity to set the record straight because Adrienne has misrepresented some points from <a href=\"https:\/\/lairdharrison.com\/fallenlake\/789\/the-genetics-of-group-marriage\/\">our discussion of the other day<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not a genetic determinist. Human behavior clearly results from the complex interaction of genes and the environment. On a more basic level, we human beings are simply patterns of matter and energy that belong to larger patterns, influencing and influenced by other patterns.*<\/p>\n<p>My wife, &#8220;Penny,&#8221; looking over my should tells me that I will have completely lost my audience with the previous sentence. The point I want to make is that Adrienne&#8217;s impulse to blame the decision of our parents to join in a &#8220;group marriage&#8221; for various behaviors of their children is misguided. Take for example the obsessive compulsive diagnosis I received at age 11. My therapist based it on theories with no experimental foundation that were slightly evolved from Freud&#8217;s concept of the &#8220;anal retentive&#8221; character. Recently gene studies have shown associations between <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/22024159\" target=\"_blank\">variants in glutamate system genes<\/a> and OCD\u00a0 (including SLC1A1 in five independent studies). My mother needlessly blamed herself for my &#8220;condition,&#8221; which was merely the result of my rather unusual attempt to understand the world scientifically at an early age.<\/p>\n<p>Forgive me if I continue in that effort.<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________________________<\/p>\n<p>*Seen in this light, the classic &#8220;nature vs. nurture&#8221; debate is resolved, since these are fundamentally cultural distinctions, with more metaphorical than material significance. Does this knowledge deprive us of what philosophers call &#8220;free will?&#8221; I don&#8217;t think that&#8217;s a very important question either. What&#8217;s important is that the pattern I call &#8220;me&#8221; is compelled to act on the other patterns around me in such a way as to try to preserve those patterns as long as possible in something close to their current form.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>he point I want to make is that Adrienne&#8217;s impulse to blame the decision of our parents to join in a &#8220;group marriage&#8221; for various behaviors of their children is misguided. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[72],"tags":[42,41,61,77,10,48,78,79],"class_list":["post-811","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-matts-blog","tag-digital-fiction","tag-interactive-novel","tag-poly-fiction","tag-poly-kids","tag-polyamory","tag-polyamory-and-children","tag-polyamory-children","tag-polyamory-ficiton"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lairdharrison.com\/fallenlake\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/811","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lairdharrison.com\/fallenlake\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lairdharrison.com\/fallenlake\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lairdharrison.com\/fallenlake\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lairdharrison.com\/fallenlake\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=811"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/lairdharrison.com\/fallenlake\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/811\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":823,"href":"https:\/\/lairdharrison.com\/fallenlake\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/811\/revisions\/823"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lairdharrison.com\/fallenlake\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=811"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lairdharrison.com\/fallenlake\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=811"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lairdharrison.com\/fallenlake\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=811"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}